10 things mothers should not do in front of their children

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10 things mothers should not do in front of their children

When we are a father or mother, we try to be the best, almost perfect for our children. We try to give them the right foods at the right times, we try to pamper and love them as much as possible during the day and night. Be aware of them every minute of the day. However, perfection does not exist, therefore our goal should not be to achieve it within our motherhood or fatherhood.

What we must bear in mind is that there are lines that parents should not cross, especially when it comes to the education of our children. One of the “talents” that our children have is that they are at the right time at the wrong time, and so we as parents are exposed before their eyes. What do I mean? Sometimes we lose patience due to the tasks that we have to do during the day, to that we must add the education of our children, and work tasks as well. That is why it is not uncommon for us to lose our minds at times, and it is in these moments that we must be careful that our children do not see us.

  • No matter what you do not want your children will imitate

  • works as you can in your self control and self

  • Learn to breathe and count to 10

  • if one day you out of hand, do not forget explain the situation and apologize


Here you have 10 tips that you as a mother should not do in front of your children, ready?

  1. Do not spend all day on your cell phone

  2. Doswear

  3. notDo not make bad comments about other people

  4. Do not promise things you will not do

  5. Do not commit car violations

  6. Do not overload your children with activities

  7. Avoid bad comments about your appearance

  8. Try not to show your fears in front of your children

  9. When your children are talking to you, do not interrupt and listen to them

  10. Do not force them to tell you something that they do not want to say

 

That’s right mom, your children’s education not only benefits them, but also you . Take the time to share with them, do not forget that you should not compare them with other children and remember that each one is special.

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Most children achieve daytime control between the ages of 2 and 3; the nocturnal can take much longer: one in ten does not achieve it before 6 years of age. From this age on, if the child continues to urinate on the bed, medical guidance should be sought. Enuresis can have a number of causes that can be related to a sleeping disorder, with a slower development of bladder control, the result of emotions or tensions that require special attention. It rarely means a problem with the kidneys or bladder.

Possible causes of lack of urine control

  1. Excessive fluid intake at night, before sleeping.

  2. The child has not yet learned to link the filling of the bladder with the need to urinate.

  3. Hereditary causes.

  4. Altered sleep rhythms

  5. Emotional causes.

  6. Physical illnesses.

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Crying is the “first word” of a baby to say what he feels, what it can mean is that he is hungry, sleepy, in pain, etc. How to decipher it? There are certain aspects that can help you. It is extremely
important that parents learn to listen and understand their baby’s cry, even if it is a great challenge. But don’t worry, after a few months, you will know your baby well enough to know what he needs. Studies have been conducted that have established that babies make similar sounds to convey a certain need.

If their sounds sound like Chinese to you, don’t worry, as the experts have done the work of interpreting and translating the baby’s cries for you. It will not be easy at first, but by observing each cry and trying the different options that can calm them, you will learn to understand them better. The cries vary in intensity, volume and intermittence. The inconsolable crying of hunger will not stop until you receive what you ask for, after a few months, the baby will cry a little before the scheduled time to eat.

Crying that has to do with discomfort or pain is often accompanied by screaming that is sharp and sudden. Generally, the pains are due to the infant’s colic, so the baby’s belly and back should be massaged. Sometimes the baby cries because he is lonely. In his need for pampering, he wants you to take him in your arms and talk to him, that will calm him immediately.Your baby’s crying is due to multiple reasons, or simply because he got up on his left foot.Your baby’s crying is due to multiple reasons, or simply because he got up on his left foot. 


Different types of baby

1. cry Persistent crying often means that the baby is hungry.

2. Nervous crying, this indicates that he must be sleepy and can’t fall asleep.

3. Heartbroken crying can mean it’s hot or cold.

4. The high-pitched and continuous crying can tell you that you are uncomfortable, perhaps because of the diaper.

5. Intense crying is often related to pain, you may be feeling colic.

6. Crying that is accompanied by hiccups can mean that you are angry about something.


When should I be concerned?

If the baby’s crying is between feedings, you should watch carefully as it may mean something else in particular. It is normal for them to cry when they are feeding, that happens because they feel the need to burp or pass gas or simply because they were left hungry. However, if this happens too crowded and you can’t fix it, it could be for other reasons.

● Allergies
● Gastroesophageal reflux

It is recommended that the baby be taught to calm himself, you can contribute to this, either by singing or talking with the baby. These types of behaviors that help you calm down, indicate that you have developed internal resources that will help you forever. Take time to teach your baby to control their crying. Crying can also be due to the baby going through certain changes and needs more attention than before or more constant, it can also be due to changes in mood, etc. Pediatric experts explain that it is important for children to experience frustration, it is necessary for them to go through this phase so that they acquire the perception of what it means to calm down on their own and acquire skills for a lifetime.

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We leave you with some benefits of doing physical activity while you are pregnant.

● Reduces the risk of gestational diabetes.

● Increases the feeling of well-being and relieves mood swings and stress

● Improves the quality of rest!

● Strengthens the cardiovascular system

● Prevents stretch marks, blood clots and even varicose veins during pregnancy

● Helps with labor and makes it easier to get back to your pre-pregnancy figure faster and easier

● Increases the amount of oxygen in your body and that of your baby

● Relieves common pregnancy problems, such as back pain, posture problems and constipation


There is a belief that pregnant women are allowed to eat as much as they want why they should eat for two, but this is only half true.

Although it is important to ensure that you and your baby receive the necessary nutrients during pregnancy, being overweight or underweight can cause harm to your body and the health of your baby.

Pregnant women who are overweight are at higher risk for diabetes, high blood pressure, or damage to the baby’s heart. On the other hand, not eating well can lead to a poorly developed baby and increase the risk of premature labor.


Weight Gain during pregnancy

– During the first 3 months, many women gain very little weight, even nothing. But, if you gain a lot of weight it is because you have surely changed your eating habits, you must be careful in this.

– In the following 3 months, the baby goes through a greater growth phase and the mother gains weight in relation to this. Average weight women typically gain between 250 and 500 grams per week during the second trimester.

– In the last stage of pregnancy, women gain about 500 grams a week, the total weight gain during the last 3 months is about 4-6 kg on average.


Of course, we must bear in mind that each body is different and the weight that is gained during the pregnancy stage depends on the person. In any case, your doctor will monitor your pregnancy. Exercise during pregnancy offers many benefits for you and your baby, as long as you don’t put yourself at risk. Doctors and midwives recommend moderate exercise, which means that you should never become exhausted. If you can carry on a conversation with someone while exercising, it is a good sign that you are training at moderate intensity. 


Medical Approval for Physical Activity
Before starting an exercise program, you should make sure you have
your doctor’s approval. Although exercise during pregnancy is somewhat
beneficial, it is not advisable to do it if you have the following problems:

● Some heart or lung disease

● Preeclampsia or high blood pressure

● Cervical problems

● Persistent vaginal bleeding during the second or third trimester

● Placental problems

● Labor Premature

● Anemia


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Don’t forget to thank him for the help!

When the new baby learns to do new maneuvers such as holding the rattle or a toy, tell the older brother that soon he will be able to play with him and this will create the child an emotion for his baby brother. In certain cases, there are children who from the first day accept their new little brother and protect and care for him, in addition to showing affection and affection, but if this is not your case, follow these tips and I assure you that you will solve the problem soon.

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  • AITANA
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Now … How is it that a baby should be properly massaged without hurting or damaging it?

– Well, the important thing is to make rotating movements on your tummy that go in a clockwise direction and it is better to do it from above with the palm of your hand open without exerting much pressure.- You can lay the baby on the bed and put him on his back, with your hands you should flex his legs towards the inside. (as if it were a little frog)

– If a child is always left in the same positions, over time, it acquires too rigid postural habits. It is important that, without making sudden movements, you change positions to breastfeed, pamper and massage, as the development of symmetry will also benefit.

– Also the massage can be done on your hands, legs, back and in the palm of your hands. 


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1.DO NOT CRITICIZE THEM
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2.DON’T SCRAP THEM IN PUBLIC
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4.YOUR PAST IS NOT THE FUTURE OF YOUR CHILDREN
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5.LOW SELF-ESTEEM IN PARENTS
Perhaps your child has low self-esteem because you have it, have you thought about that?


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Symptoms of gestational diabetes are usually mild or not even present, these include:

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● Fatigue
● Frequent infections
● Increased thirst
● Nausea and vomiting
● Weight loss or increased irregular appetite

Women who are older than 25 years are more likely to develop this type of diabetes or those who have a family history of gestational diabetes. Being overweight can also contribute to the development of this disease, blood pressure or the presence of polycystic ovary syndrome.



What complications can gestational diabetes bring to pregnancy?

Gestational diabetes that is not controlled can cause health problems for both the breast and the baby. There is a risk of complications that can affect the baby:
1. Excess birth weight
2. Risk of premature delivery
3. Low blood sugar
4. The baby has a risk of developing type 2 diabetes in the future

In the breast it can cause:
1. High blood pressure
2. Future diabetes


Treatment for gestational diabetes is based on diet, exercise and certain medications that can only be prescribed by the doctor. Treatment for this disease consists of maintaining a blood glucose level equivalent to that of pregnant women without gestational diabetes. Food: It is recommended to distribute the caloric content of the diet in such a way that 40-50% should be carbohydrates, 30-40% fat and 20% protein.Exercise: This should be a moderate exercise, at least 30 minutes a day.

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If from the beginning of the child’s speech, a simple and appropriate vocabulary is provided, the child will learn to speak correctly. Parents can stimulate this stage of their child by speaking clearly. It is important to use the correct pronunciation of each word, for example, not to name the objects in diminutive and to use simple phrases that the child can easily learn. When you ask your child to do something, try to mention the names of the objects, for example: “Son, can you put this shirt in the laundry basket, please?” Thus the child will learn to locate objects by name and it will remain in his memory. Next time, you will hear your child say “shirt.” The more you repeat the word to him, the faster he will learn and pronounce it better.When your child has mastered a word, praise him. This is a great achievement for him and if you encourage him, he will be motivated to keep learning to get the same reaction you did.


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Experts recommend that reading should start from your child’s 6 months, using age-appropriate books. Start conversations with your child about simple topics, ask him things that he should answer. Parents must show confidence in front of their children and make them see that their opinion matters to you too.

I assure you that this is one of the main causes that children, in adulthood, are independent and self-confident people. Be sure to show love, understanding, and patience. Remember this is a nnew process for your child and he is just learning. A mistake that many parents make unconsciously is that, when the child says a mispronounced word and with a greasy intonation, the parents laugh or make fun of the children. Wrong! This should embarrass parents. The only thing that you will provoke is that the child grows up with resentment, fear and insecurity.


Children are sponges that absorb everything around them. It depends on the parents that the children be good people, good citizens, compassionate, empathetic and humble. Teaching him violent words or teaching him what to respond to a tease with aggression will only create a very bad person out of your child in the future.

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